Thursday, July 10, 2014

Like We Used to - ARTM

I can feel her breath as she's sleeping next to me
Sharing pillows and cold feet
She can feel my heart, fell asleep to its beat
Under blankets and warm sheets
If only I could be in that bed again
If only it were me instead of him
Does he watch your favorite movies?
Does he hold you when you cry?
Does he let you tell him all your favorite parts?
When you've seen it a million times
Does he sing to all your music
While you dance to "Purple Rain"?
Does he do all these things
Like I used to?
14 months and 7 days ago
Oh, I know you know how we felt about that night
Just your skin against the window
But we took it slow and we both know
It shoulda been me inside that car
It should have been me instead of him in the dark
Does he watch your favorite movies?
Does he hold you when you cry?
Does he let you tell him all your favorite parts
When you've seen it a million times?
Does he sing to all your music
While you dance to 'Purple Rain'?
Does he do all these things
Like I used to?
I know, love
(Well, I'm a sucker for that feeling)
Happens all the time, love
(I always end up feeling cheated)
You're on my mind, love
(Oh sorta let her when I need it)
That happens all the time, love, yeah
Will he love you like I loved you?
Will he tell you everyday?
Will he make you feel like you're invincible
With every word he'll say?
Can you promise me if this one's right
Don't throw it all away
Can you do all these things?
Will you do all these things
Like we used to?
Oh, like we used to

Simple Plan - Try

I've never been the best at honesty,
I've made more mistakes than I can even count,
but things are gonna be so different now,
You make me wanna turn it all around.
I think of all the games that I have played,
the unsuspecting people that I've heard,
deep inside I know I don't deserve,
another chance to finally make it work.
But i'll try, to never disappoint you,
I'll try, until I get it right,
I've always been so reckless, all of my life,
but I'll try,
for you.
I've been the best at letting people down,
I've never been the kind of person you can trust,
but if you can give me half a chance I'll show,
how much I can fix myself for you.
And i'll try, to never disappoint you,
i'll try, until i get it right,
I've always been so reckless, all of my life,
but i'll try...
This time I wont make up excuses (I don't wanna lose you),
Don't give up on me and I'll prove that,
I can do this!
I'll try, to never disappoint you,
I'll try, until I get it right (till I get it right),
I've always been so reckless, all of my life,
but i'll try,
for you.
(Never been the best at honesty, you know that you can never count on me, )
I'll try for you!
(but if you give me half a chance I'll show, there is nothing that I wouldn't do for you!)
I'll try for you!
I've always been so reckless, all of my life,
but i'll try,
for you.





Somebody Out There - A Rocket to the Moon


You deserve someone who listens to you
Hears every word and knows what to do
When youre feeling hopeless lost and confused
There's somebody out there who will
You need a man who holds you for hours
Make your friends jealous
When he brings you flowers
And laughs when he says they dont have love like ours
There somebody out there who will
Theres somebody out there whos looking for you
Someday he'll find you, I swear that its true
He's gonna kiss you and you'll feel the world standstill
Theres somebody out there who will
He'll take you dancing and pull you in close
Spin you around and wont let you go
Till they turn the lights off and he'll take you home
There's somebody out there who will
There's somebody out there whos looking for you
Someday hell find you I swear that its true
He's gonna kiss you and you'll feel the world standstill
Theres somebody out there who will
Tossing and turning and dreaming at night
About finding him and praying and hoping you might
Cause you deserve someone who knows how to treat you right
I know he's out there
Hes looking for you
Someday he'll find you I swear that its true
And he's gonna kiss you and you'll feel the world standstill
Oh
You need some who'll miss you
Hold you and kiss you
Theres somebody out there who will

Belajar Menghargai

Hari ini aku belajar suatu hal. Menghargai perasaan orang yang sayang sama kita itu ngga gampang. Mungkin menurut kita, hal yang kita lakuin sebenernya biasa aja. Tapi belum tentu orang lain memandang tindakan yang kita lakukan biasa aja.
Dan aku mulai ngerti betapa sebenernya antara sahabat dan 'orang yg sayang' adalah dua orang yang berbeda dengan tindakan yang berbeda pula kita memperlakukannya. Itulah yang sering jadi penyebab suatu masalah antara sahabat dan 'orang yg sayang'. Kurang memahami posisi dan kedudukan masing - masing. Dan sebagai pemeran utama kita perlu menjelaskan dan mengenalkan pelan-pelan untuk mengurangi terjadinya kesalahpahaman.
Kalo suatu permasalahan itu udah muncul dan sebabnya karena salah paham. Solusinya, berusaha kendalikan suasana, biarkan semuanya tenang. Tapi kita tetap berusaha untuk tetap menjelaskan pada pihak yang bermasalah sebenernya apa yang dia permasalahkan belum tentu se-negatif yang dia pikirkan. Tapi, kalo permasalahan lebih runcing, biarkan sampai pihak yang bermasalah sampai dia benar-benar tenang, biarkan dia mau berpikir negatif. Tugas kita ngga perlu ngasih penjelasan tapi bukti. Lha kalo dengan cara-cara kayak gitu masih tetep aja nyari masalah, berati ya emang udah niat nyari-nyari masalah, saranku orang kayak gitu ngga usah diperatiin, bikin beban aja. Hidup itu udah susah ngapain tambah dibuat susah.
Tapi, kalo urusannya kita yang ngga mau ngalah buat ngertiin pihak yang bermasalah, kita juga salah. Namanya kita ngga ngehargain seseorang yang udah sayang sama kita. Ya walaupun kayak gimana aja sebenernya kita yang bener. Namanya juga salah paham.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Dewasa?

Setiap manusia akan menuju masa dimana sebuah pemikiran bukan lagi sebuah pemikiran sederhana dibarengi dengan mulai stabilnya sebuah emosi dan matangnya segala persiapan untuk menjadi manusia yang mandiri. Inilah yang dimaksud dengan proses kedewasaan. Dan yang namanya proses kedewasaan ini, terjadi pada tiap orang dengan berbeda-beda cara dan berbeda-beda juga kapan waktunya.
Tetapi, beberapa orang terkadang mengkalim dirinya sudah meginjak masa dewasa yang menurutnya apa yang dia lakukan bukanlah kelakuan anak kecil dan emosinya yang dianggap sudah tidak lagi labil. Sekali lagi, kalo kita ingin liat muka kita, kita butuh sebuah cermin untuk melihatnya. Begitu juga dengan dewasa engga nya kita. Yang bisa menilai hanya orang lain. 
Belum tentu, orang yang jauh lebih tua dari kita, emosi dan tingkah lakunya lebih dewasa dari kita. Bisa saja justru kita yang lebih dewasa. Hal tersebut membuktikan bahwa sebuah kedewasaan tidak mengenal usia. Dan untuk beberapa hal, sebenarnya manusia engga bisa matang secara keseluruhan. Tingkat kedewasaan seseorang itu tergantung pada pengalaman dan proses hidup atau proses dia menjalani sebuah kehidupan itu sendiri. Dan tiap individu mempunyai pengalaman yang berbeda-beda. Itulah yang menyebabkan seseorang itu engga matang secara keseluruhan.